A Black couple embracing, boutique matchmaking for Black professionals by The Broom List

Matchmaking for Accomplished Black Professionals

A love worth jumping the broom for.

Private, intentional matchmaking for accomplished Black professionals ready to meet their person.

As seen on The Today Show  ·  Hundreds of introductions  ·  By application only

As Seen On

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Why The Broom List

The most important decision
you’ll ever make.

You’ve been intentional about your career, your education, and every part of the life you’re proud of. You’ve done the work to build an extraordinary life, and now you’re looking for someone equally yoked to share it. Choosing the person you build the rest of it with is the most important decision of all, and it deserves real attention, and someone fully dedicated to getting it right.

A decision that important deserves undivided time and attention, and someone who shows up every day with one goal: finding your person.

The searching · the vetting · the planning · handled

We don’t work with everyone. Those we do are:

28+
Years Old

Highly
Educated

Financially Established
Six Figures+

Ready For
Something Real

The Approach

An app could never.

Every introduction comes from a real matchmaker who takes the time to truly know you. Eight considered steps, from application through ongoing coaching. Everyone we introduce you to has been through every one of them.

01

Application Review

We read every application ourselves and reply within 48 hours, so the search begins with genuine intention.

02

Strategy Call

An opportunity to learn about the service, ask your questions, and assess whether we’re the right fit for each other. You’ll leave knowing exactly what the engagement involves.

03

Private Interview

We sit down and go deep: your life, every area of it, your history, and what you want for your future. It is how we know who you are at your core, not just what you want on paper.

04

Home Tour

You can tell so much about someone by their space, so we visit yours, in person or virtually, to understand how you live and what you value.

05

Reference

We speak with someone who knows you well, because the people closest to a person reveal what no questionnaire can.

06

Curated Introductions

We choose your matches with care, and nothing is arranged without your yes. We plan every detail of the date, so all you have to do is show up.

07

Thoughtful Feedback

After every date, we speak candidly with both sides. The kind of honest feedback a first date never gives you.

08

Ongoing Coaching

Your matchmaker stays in your corner the whole way, long after the first introduction.

The Broom List Difference

Vetting this rigorous is rare in matchmaking.

Our 360 degree evaluation is a comprehensive look at your life and what you are truly looking for. Everyone goes through the very same process, so every person you are introduced to has been vetted with the same rigor.

2HR
Deep Dive and Vetting
Video Verification
Home Tour
Reference Interview
200
Points of Compatibility
360°
Full Evaluation

Every member. Every client. No exceptions.

What if all you had to do was show up?

Imagine walking into a date already knowing they share your values, have their life together, and want the same future you do. No wondering if they're on the same page. No guessing whether they're as accomplished as they say.

We ask the questions you might not get answers to for a year, before you ever meet. So all you have to do is show up, have fun, and get to know them.

We're excited to be the catalyst for lasting love, and we can't wait to work with you.

Membership

Three ways in.

Private Matchmaking

A dedicated matchmaker and a search conducted entirely for you.

The Database

Join the list to be considered for our clients, complimentary.

Dating Coaching

Guidance from your dating coach, so you bring your best self to every date.

An engaged Black couple embracing, her engagement ring catching the light
“We're getting married!!!”
A real client text, one year after her first Broom List date

Where We Match

Six metros.
Open to anywhere.

Matches concentrated in six metros. We work with clients anywhere who are open to meeting someone from one of these cities.

Atlanta

Chicago

Houston

Los Angeles

New York

Washington DC

Complimentary Guide

Walk into your next first date with total confidence.

Tennesha's signature first-date framework, yours with our compliments.

Inside the Guide

The Rule of 3: A First Date Confidence Guide

Nonverbal confidence. Conversations that go deeper. And the mindset shift that removes all the pressure.

You'll also receive occasional dating insights from Tennesha. Leave whenever you wish.

Details

Frequently asked questions.

What is The Broom List?

The Broom List is a boutique matchmaking firm founded by Tennesha Wood that pairs educated, successful, marriage-minded Black professionals and those who date them. The name honors the tradition of jumping the broom. The firm has been featured on The Today Show, Good Morning America, The New York Times, and Bravo's Kings Court.

Who does The Broom List match?

Black professionals and those who date them and meet our criteria. All members and clients are 28 or older, highly educated, earn at least six figures, and are ready for something real. We ask the questions you might not find out a year into dating, or ever. We go deep.

Do you work with gay and lesbian singles?

Yes. Love is love, and The Broom List is for accomplished Black professionals who are serious about finding it, whoever their person may be. We also partner with a trusted network of fellow matchmakers with deep LGBTQ+ candidate pools, and every candidate, however they come to us, is vetted with the same rigor, care, and discretion.

Where does The Broom List operate?

Our matches are concentrated in six metros: Atlanta, Chicago, Houston, Los Angeles, New York, and Washington DC. We work with clients anywhere in the country. If you live in one of our six metros, we work to match you there first. If not, we search across all six and find the best fit for your life.

How do I get started with The Broom List?

Start with an application at thebroomlist.com, reviewed personally within 48 hours. From there: a strategy call to talk through what you’re looking for, an interview with the lead matchmaker, a reference call, then curated introductions with planned dates and honest feedback after each one. Your membership and level of support are shaped around your goals and discussed with you directly on the call.

Do you accept everyone who applies?

No. We're selective by design. We only take on clients we believe we can genuinely match, and not every application moves forward. It's what keeps every match strong.

How does vetting work at The Broom List?

Every member and client goes through the same 360-degree evaluation: a two-hour interview, video verification, and a reference call with someone who knows them well. What we learn shapes every introduction. It is not a criminal background check, and no screening replaces your own judgment. We are always here to talk anything through, before or after a date.

Your person is on the list.

Our clients and members are attorneys, physicians, scientists, entrepreneurs, and executives at the top of their fields, personally and professionally, who are ready to find a like-minded partner. Every one is hand-picked, and we take on a limited number. We review every application personally within 48 hours.

Meet Your Matchmaker

Tennesha WoodFounder and Chief Matchmaker

Your guide. Your coach. Your advocate.
The person in your corner from first hello to lasting love.

Tennesha Wood, founder and chief matchmaker of The Broom List

Hello, I’m glad we found each other.

Like a lot of my clients, you probably want what I wanted: love, true connection, and someone you can get a little mad at for watching an episode of your show without you. I get it.

I spent my twenties in New York dating and having a blast doing it. But by the time I hit my thirties, I found myself with a few people I knew weren’t for me. They felt safe, and honestly, sometimes the wrong someone felt better than no one at all.

Eventually I realized that true love comes from truth, and the truth was that I wanted partnership far more than I was willing to admit. I was deep in my girlboss era, “Independent Women” on repeat, and the thing that finally changed wasn’t that I wanted love. It’s that I was willing to say it out loud.

As I got older, I realized love wasn’t about the fairy tale of Prince Charming sweeping you off your feet. It was the everyday. And as boring as that sounds, I wanted that. I wanted someone to eat Costco samples with on a Saturday afternoon. Someone who knew my coffee order and just got it (grande caramel macchiato, extra hot). A gym buddy to rip the covers off after I hit snooze one too many times. I wanted someone to truly know me.

So I got honest with myself. And that, with a little luck, some serious vetting, and a bit of strategy, is how I met my husband. Now I do the same for you.

I started The Broom List in November of 2020. After serving in the Army and working in corporate sales, living all over the country, I met a lot of singles who were all asking the same questions: Where is my person, and why is it so hard to meet them? Why do I have such bad dates? Why can’t I find anyone I’m actually attracted to? Does anyone want an actual relationship?

And they swipe and message, and swipe and message again, and then finally go on bad dates that they wished they hadn’t bothered getting dressed for. They get frustrated, and eventually become cynical, and come to the conclusion that it’s best to save the energy and effort, that solo Netflix and doom scrolling is just fine. But deep down, you know it’s not. You truly want to meet your person.

This is where I come in.

Since 2020, I have personally guided more than 250 introductions. When you work with The Broom List, you work directly with me, and I wear every hat your search requires: the strategist who studies your patterns, the scout who searches and vets, the planner who arranges every detail, and the coach in your corner before and after every date. My focus never changes: getting you to your person.

Sometimes I’m your biggest cheerleader. Sometimes I’m the no-nonsense friend who tells you you’ve been chasing the wrong qualities for years. That honesty is the foundation of everything we do together, because the more truthful we are with each other, the better your matches become.

Tennesha and her husband during her pregnancy, expecting their son
My husband and our son, the life we built together.

Wishing you love,

Tennesha

“I found a love that was right for me.
I’d like to help you find yours.”

Tennesha Wood

Why clients choose Tennesha

80+

Clients Matched

Successfully paired since founding in 2020

250+

Introductions

Carefully curated matches since founding in 2020

200

Points of Compatibility

The most thorough vetting process in boutique matchmaking

As seen in The New York Times The Today Show Good Morning America Oprah Daily Cosmopolitan Bravo Essence Entrepreneur USA Today People BET InStyle
The Broom List, matchmaking for Black professionals

Matchmaking that’s made headlines.

Recent Press

In the spotlight.

Bravo’s Kings Court

Tennesha Wood, founder of The Broom List, on The Today Show sharing tips for getting back into the dating scene

The Today Show

Cheddar News, Matchmaking for Black Professionals

Cheddar News

More from Tennesha

Featured in.

Read

The New York TimesHow to get through a breakup during the pandemic The New York TimesCheap, creative Valentine’s Day ideas USA TodayJLo, Ben Affleck & the pressure to go ‘Instagram official’ PeopleHow your smartphone can ruin your relationship Cosmopolitan6 things to know about being left on read CosmopolitanDo not text your ex ‘Happy Birthday’ EssenceThe women of #BlackLove search for love Essence · Girls UnitedWhat an ultimatum can do to your relationship EntrepreneurShe went on a reality dating show, and found a calling Oprah DailyA grown woman’s guide to online dating InStyle‘Apocalypsing’: the pandemic’s most problematic dating trend InStyleFODA: the fear of dating again is real InStyleHow COVID made us fall in love even faster InStyleThe best gift for your S.O., by love language Refinery29The biggest dating-app flex is being vaccinated Refinery29‘Cushioning’ might be the shadiest dating trend yet Refinery29 · Travel DiariesHow a matchmaker explores the world BustleTurbo relationships, one year later Bustle20 texts to send to reconnect with an ex BustleWhy it’s time to consider a matchmaker BETWhat this matchmaker wants you to know Well+Good7 tips to heal from a breakup during the pandemic GlamThe best things about being single in your 30s GlamThe wellness trends that got us through lockdown InsideHookDid COVID kill cuffing season? MadameNoire · MompreneursManifesting Black love through matchmaking Morning BrewWhat not to say on dating apps Living in QueendomThe founder of The Broom List, in her own words Bumble8 romantic, COVID-safe Valentine’s Day date ideas
A joyful Black couple dancing, the man twirling his partner, luxury matchmaking for Black professionals by The Broom List

Services & Membership

The search,
done for you.

Why Matchmaking

Strategy,
applied to love.

You’re accomplished, and none of that happened by accident. You worked to get into the right schools, build the right network, earn the right opportunities, and create the life you imagined. Every part of it was intentional.

Choosing the person you build your life with deserves that same intention. It’s too important to leave to chance, to a late-night swipe, or to hoping the right one happens to appear. Matchmaking brings strategy, a trained eye, and someone whose only job is to find the person who truly fits.

Why The Broom List

We are selective by design.

We don’t work with everyone, and not everyone is invited into our network. We say yes only to those we believe are a genuine fit: accomplished, intentional, relationship-ready people of exceptional caliber. That selectivity is what protects the quality of every introduction we make.

By Invitation

Offered only to those who are a true fit

Fully Vetted

Screened before ever being matched with a client

High Caliber

Educated, established, marriage-minded

Who We Work With

People on the list are…

Marriage Minded
28+
Years Old
Highly Educated
Established & Accomplished

Private Matchmaking

A dedicated matchmaker. One mission: your person.

You work closely, one on one, with your dedicated matchmaker, who learns you deeply, searches everywhere your person might be, our network, our database, and well beyond, and brings you only quality, fully vetted matches.

Our clients are accomplished men and women alike, people who are done leaving the most important search of their life to chance. You don’t have time to swipe. You have a life to live. We do the searching. Your only job is the date.

You built what you have by knowing when to trust the right people with the work that matters. This is no different. We handle the search. You show up.

Completely private, always. Discretion is built into everything we do.

One on one with your matchmaker
Only quality, vetted matches
Dates planned for you
Coached at every step
A Black couple sharing a tender, intimate moment at home, private matchmaking by The Broom List

Ways to Begin

Choose your path.

Every path begins with the same rigorous vetting. What changes is who the search is for. Have a matchmaker search exclusively for you, sharpen your approach with private coaching, or join the vetted list our clients are matched from.

Matchmaking Client

The search is for you.

You’re the client. A dedicated matchmaker searches exclusively on your behalf. An investment in finding the right partner, for those ready to make it.

  • A highly selective, boutique client roster
  • A dedicated matchmaker searching exclusively for you
  • Full vetting, date planning, and coaching included
  • Honest feedback and guidance after every date
Database Member

You may be the one we’re seeking.

You join our vetted list, complimentary, and may be selected as a match for one of our clients. Open to being found.

  • Complimentary to join, by approval
  • Fully vetted before any introduction
  • Considered as a match for our clients
  • Upgrade to a dedicated search anytime
Dating Coaching

Sharpen how you show up.

One-on-one coaching so you bring your best self to every date, with or without a matchmaking search.

  • Private sessions with your dating coach
  • Profile, presence, and first-date strategy
  • Honest, expert feedback on your dating life
  • Available with or without matchmaking

The Engagement

What working together looks like.

Matchmaking with us is a real investment, of your time, your trust, and yes, your resources. Here is what that investment makes possible.

A considered commitment.

This is not a quick fix or a swipe. A search unfolds over months, not days, because finding the right person is worth doing well, and your matchmaker is with you the entire way. Love is not a notification. No one can guarantee love, and we won’t pretend otherwise. What we promise is the work: matches sourced and vetted to your standards, and a search that doesn’t stop at “good enough.”

A real investment, for those ready to make it.

Our clients are accomplished people who understand that the most important search of their life deserves the same resources they have brought to everything else. Private matchmaking is a premium service, priced accordingly, and we are glad to walk you through it on your call. If now is not the right time, our complimentary database keeps you close until it is.

A search wider than your city.

You are never limited to whoever happens to be nearby. Our matches are concentrated in six metros, and wherever you live, we ask only that you be open to meeting someone from one of them. Beyond our vetted database, your matchmaker searches our nationwide network and recruits on your behalf. The right person is rarely the one already in front of you, so we go looking.

Success Stories

The proof is in the proposals.

A real Broom List match: 32, attorney · 34, marketing executive · Matched in Washington D.C.

B
Your Matchmaker
The Broom List

Everything is arranged.
You need only arrive.

We do the searching, the vetting, and the planning. You simply arrive to a wonderful first date with someone genuinely worth meeting, and let it become something more, just as it did for the couple above.

A joyful couple, a real Broom List match

“The right introduction
can change everything.”

The Couples

When was the last time you were excited after a first date?

Every story below began the same way: one well-matched introduction. Not a swipe. Not an algorithm. One matchmaker who knew exactly who to call.

The Broom List success story: a newlywed couple, married after matching in Phoenix
"I'm a married woman!"
59, insurance executive
Matched in Phoenix
The Broom List success story: a couple matched in Washington, D.C.
"It's all because of you."
35, regulatory attorney
37, IT consultant
Matched in Washington D.C.
The Broom List success story: a couple matched in Washington, D.C.
"My birthday in France… it’s been everything!"
39, speaker
46, real estate developer
Matched in Washington D.C.
The Broom List success story: a couple matched in Houston
"I stopped looking the day I met her."
38, finance director
43, marketing manager
Matched in Houston
The Broom List success story: a couple matched in Dallas
"I’m so excited, we have a few trips planned!"
40, finance professional
34, data scientist
Matched in Dallas
The Broom List success story: a couple matched in New York
"He’s a handsome, sweet, thoughtful and generous man."
35, learning & development manager
54, investment banking executive
Matched in New York

In Their Own Words

Real messages. Real results.

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A delighted Broom List client sharing a happy update
Client message celebrating a successful Broom List match
A Broom List client sharing a relationship milestone
Real Broom List client testimonial message
A delighted Broom List client sharing a happy update
Client message celebrating a successful Broom List match
A Broom List client sharing a relationship milestone
Real Broom List client testimonial message
A delighted Broom List client sharing a happy update
Client message celebrating a successful Broom List match
A Broom List client sharing a relationship milestone
Real Broom List client testimonial message
A delighted Broom List client sharing a happy update
Client message celebrating a successful Broom List match
A Broom List client sharing a relationship milestone
Real Broom List client testimonial message
A delighted Broom List client sharing a happy update
Client message celebrating a successful Broom List match
A Broom List client sharing a relationship milestone
Real Broom List client testimonial message
A delighted Broom List client sharing a happy update
Client message celebrating a successful Broom List match
A Broom List client sharing a relationship milestone
A Broom List client celebrating an engagement and sharing heartfelt thanks
A heartfelt client message thanking Tennesha for her impact on the community
Real Broom List client testimonial message
A delighted Broom List client sharing a happy update
Client message celebrating a successful Broom List match
A Broom List client sharing a relationship milestone
Real Broom List client testimonial message
A delighted Broom List client sharing a happy update
Client message celebrating a successful Broom List match
A Broom List client sharing a relationship milestone
Real Broom List client testimonial message
A delighted Broom List client sharing a happy update
Client message celebrating a successful Broom List match
A Broom List client sharing a relationship milestone
Real Broom List client testimonial message
A delighted Broom List client sharing a happy update
Client message celebrating a successful Broom List match
A Broom List client sharing a relationship milestone
Real Broom List client testimonial message
A delighted Broom List client sharing a happy update
Client message celebrating a successful Broom List match
A Broom List client sharing a relationship milestone
Real Broom List client testimonial message
A delighted Broom List client sharing a happy update
Client message celebrating a successful Broom List match
A Broom List client sharing a relationship milestone
Real Broom List client testimonial message
A delighted Broom List client sharing a happy update
Client message celebrating a successful Broom List match
A Broom List client sharing a relationship milestone
A Broom List client celebrating an engagement and sharing heartfelt thanks
A heartfelt client message thanking Tennesha for her impact on the community

Your story starts
with a single date.

Everything is arranged. We find the person, plan the date, and support you all the way to whatever comes next.

Offerings

Something new is coming.

Beyond private matchmaking, we are creating a collection of courses and resources to help you date with intention and confidence. Join the list to be the first to know when it opens.

In the Works

The Intentional Dating Method.

A self-paced course on how to date with clarity and purpose, drawn from the same approach behind every Broom List match.

  • Know exactly what you are looking for
  • Recognize the right person when they appear
  • Date with confidence, not guesswork
In the Works

Guides & resources.

Signature tools and guides to sharpen how you approach dating, on your own time.

  • Practical, beautifully made guides
  • Drawn from real matchmaking insight
  • Yours to keep and return to
In the Works

Events & coaching.

Live workshops and private one-on-one coaching for those who want guidance in person.

  • Intimate live workshops and events
  • Private coaching intensives
  • Personal guidance, every step
Selective by design